What's L.O.V.E...

Love has to cover and envelop all aspects of your marriage. So love your partner, your home, your kids, your new family and most of all love your marital life. Having a happy marriage doesn’t mean that you must have lived a love story before; it’s enough to believe in your husband and who he is, and then give yourself a chance for love to grow. If your husband is not the romantic type and doesn’t with a loving touch, a sorry note, a small gift or just the magical phrase “I love you”. The results are sure to be lovely.  
Then comes trust, which constitutes a major issue at the base of any relationship. It’s essential that you trust your husband, his words, his actions and most importantly his capabilities to be the leader of your family. If you trust your husband you have to give him his space. Let him have sometime for himself, to meet his friends, travel with them, have a lunch with his family (aside from regular family gatherings) or just have a coffee on a Friday morning at a nice coffee shop. This will help him appreciate his time with you at home even more. To assure your happiness though, this trust has to be mutual so you can enjoy some of this space for yourself too, as you will need it from time to time. 
Relationship is not just love and trust. There are is security and partnership among other things.Security here doesn’t just mean protection from danger. It’s very important to feel secure about your present life, secure that your husband can fulfill his responsibilities, secure about your future and what kind of life you are going to lead, secure about how your kids will be raised and to live in a loving family. Unfortunately, these days a lot of marriages end because of lack of security, as a lot of women find that their partners are not responsible enough, in turn, they fell insecure about their life, their financial status and how they are going to raise their kids. Realizing how important security is to you, try to share this with your husband and if a situation arises where you feel your security is threatened try to discuss the problem but always be there for him (remember your presence and encouragement make him feel secure too). 

Finally, we come to our last point that is sharing or partnership otherwise known to be the secret behind any successful marriage. Sharing thoughts, concerns, ideas, hopes, dreams and most of all responsibility is really the whole idea behind marriage and the quest to find the right person.